Delores Eleanor MARKLEY

Female 1932 - 2021  (89 years)


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  • Name Delores Eleanor MARKLEY  [2, 3
    • Delores Eleanor "Diz" Coffman, 89, of Amarillo, Texas, formerly of Munday and Stratford Texas, passed peacefully, surrounded by loving family, on December 20th, 2021.

      Memorial services will be held Monday, January 3rd, 2022, at the First United Methodist Church in Stratford, TX. Chaplain Dr. G. A. Roach will be officiating with graveside services to follow. Arrangements are by Boxwell Brothers Funeral Directors.

      This is the story of Diz Coffman.

      Born "Delores" to George and Alice Markley on June 29th, 1932, in Highmore, South Dakota. She was 1 of 11 children born to a small-town family. A gently-reared South Dakota lass found herself swept off her feet by "Powder" Coffman, a not so mild-mannered Texas Cowboy spending his senior year at Highmore. The consequences and ensuing "wild ride" lasted 73 years. Powder Coffman defined her life. She lost the love of her life in 2005 and became the Matriarch of our family with great grace and poise.

      Powder moved Diz (and Baby Colleen) to Stratford, Texas, and planted her right in the middle of a nest of Coffmans. Diz thrived even in the "Little Dude" (a two-room house), and they added Carey Ted to the family, moving to a trailer house in the country. Here Diz was introduced to Tornado Alley when 2?- not 1?- of her trailer homes were destroyed. Just as Diz was getting her family grown, she was blessed with Chad.

      Thankfully Diz could make any place a home. She was a bit like Jesus with the loaves and fishes. She could conjure a meal out of nothing and a party out of almost nothing. Stratford Methodist Church ladies are still passing around her recipes.

      Being able to spend the remainder of her life in her own home was an incredible blessing for Diz. She ceaselessly created, entertained, wrote poetry, gardened, and painted. Healthy, active, independent, and close to loved ones, her contagious energy, dry wit, and love of pranks lasted her entire life. She always had quite a story, which occasionally changed with the telling. The official family optimist above all else, her legacy to our family is immense and her impact on us all will last for generations.

      She was the last in the life of her 5 brothers and 5 sisters and was preceded in death by her parents, George and Alice Markley; her husband, Homer Ted "Powder" Coffman; a grandson, Christopher Bennett; and a great-grandson, Carter McCloud.

      She is survived by her three children, Colleen, Carey, and Chad; her grandchildren, Korte, Keitha, Ky, and Heather; and 4 great-grandchildren, Paisley, Evan, Zegan, and Harper.

      The family requests, in lieu of flowers or other honorariums, that everyone considers unconditional love of others, the forgiveness of the undeserving, eternal optimism, and encouragement to all who struggle or doubt.

      (Published by Boxwell Brothers Funeral Directors, Wednesday, December 29, 2021)
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      South Dakota, U.S., Marriages, 1905-2017
      Name: Delores Markley
      Gender: Female
      Marriage Age: 18
      Birth Date: abt 1932
      Marriage Date: 6 Aug 1950
      Marriage Place: Hyde, South Dakota, USA
      Spouse: Homer Coffman

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    Birth 29 Jun 1932  Highmore, Hyde County, South Dakota Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2, 3
    Gender Female 
    Census 1940  Living with parents in Highmore, Hyde Co., South Dakota Find all individuals with events at this location  [3
    Death 20 Dec 2021  Amarillo, Potter Co., Texas Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Burial Statford Cemetery, Statford, Sherman Co., Texas Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Person ID I1280  Main Tree
    Last Modified 12 Sep 2023 

    Father George Lee MARKLEY,   b. 1 Jun 1891, Bluff City, Schuyler Co., Illinois Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 27 Mar 1964, Highmore, Hyde Co., South Dakota Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 72 years) 
    Relationship Birth 
    Mother Nyla Alice BANCROFT,   b. 15 Jul 1897, Highmore, Hyde County, South Dakota Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 3 Apr 1980, Highmore, Hyde Co., South Dakota Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 82 years) 
    Relationship Birth 
    Marriage 14 Nov 1917  Hyde Co., South Dakota Find all individuals with events at this location  [4
    Family ID F912  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Homer Ted COFFMAN,   b. 1 Sep 1930, Statford, Sherman Co., Texas Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 27 Mar 2005 (Age 74 years) 
    Marriage 6 Aug 1950  Brown Co., South Dakota Find all individuals with events at this location  [2, 4
    Children 
    +1. Colleen Cay COFFMAN
    +2. Carey Ted COFFMAN
     3. Chad Cory COFFMAN
    Family ID F959  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 12 Sep 2023 

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  • Sources 
    1. [S02329] Find A Grave Website.

    2. [S281] Information from S. Ingersoll dtd 09-04-2023.

    3. [S282] 1940 Census Highmore, Hyde County, South Dakota.

    4. [S9455] Ancestry.com: South Dakota, U.S., Marriages, 1905-2018.