Robert LAY

Male 1681 - 1738  (57 years)


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  • Name Robert LAY  [1, 2, 3, 4
    Birth 27 Jan 1680/1  Saybrook, Middlesex, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [3, 4, 5
    Gender Male 
    Death 01 Jul 1738  Westbrook, Middlesex County, Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this location  [4
    Notes 
    • Excerpt from "Descendants of Robert Lay": "Two adjoining tombstones in Westbrook cemetery read as follows:
      "Here lies the body of Robert Lay died July 1st 1738 aged 57 years."
      "Here lies the body of Mrs. Mary ye wife of Mr. Robert Lay, who died June 9th, A.D. 1755, in ye 71st year of her age."
      Robert Lay lived at Westbrook, was the first of the name to settle thre, and was the well known "tavern Keeper" who kept the tavern near the so-called Dr. cone house. Mary his wife was the daughter of Daniel and Lydia (Peabody) Grinnell, grandaughter of Daniel Grinnell, of Little compton, R.I. by wife Mary, daughter of William and Mary Wodell of Boston, Mass., and Portsmouth and Tiverton, R.I. and great-granddaughter of Matthew and Rose Grinnell, of Nerport, R.I. Daniel Grinnell in his will mentions his daughter "Mary Lay," although Austin makes no mention of her. Lydia Peabody, her mother, was the daughter of William and Elizabeth (Alden) Peabody, of Little compton, R.I. and the granddaughter of John Alden of the "Mayflower". The Grinnell family were of Huguenot extraction. mary (Grinnell) Lay was one of the original members of the church at Westbrook."
    Person ID I35415  Main Tree
    Last Modified 22 Feb 2018 

    Father Robert LAY, Jr.,   b. 06 Mar 1654, Saybrook, New London Co., Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1742, Saybrook, New London Co., Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 87 years) 
    Relationship Birth 
    Mother Mary STANTON,   b. 1660, Saybrook, New London Co., Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Aft 1743 (Age > 84 years) 
    Relationship Birth 
    Marriage 22 Jan 1679  Saybrook, Middlesex, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [3, 4, 5, 6
    Family ID F04920  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Mary GRINNELL,   b. Abt 1688   d. 09 Jun 1755 (Age 67 years) 
    Marriage 12 Dec 1703  Saybrook, Middlesex, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [4, 5
    Children 
     1. Robert LAY,   b. 20 Dec 1705, Saybrook, Middlesex, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 01 Jan 1790 (Age 84 years)  [Natural]
     2. Lieut. Christopher LAY,   b. 27 Feb 1707/8, Saybrook West Parish, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 03 Oct 1759 (Age 51 years)  [Birth]
     3. Lydia LAY,   b. 26 Jun 1710, Saybrook, Middlesex, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [Natural]
     4. Daniel LAY,   b. 03 Oct 1712, Saybrook, Middlesex, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 28 Dec 1782 (Age 70 years)  [Birth]
     5. Jeremiah LAY,   b. 13 Jan 1715, Westbrook, Middlesex Co., Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Aft 24 Feb 1792 (Age > 77 years)  [Natural]
     6. Phebe LAY,   b. 29 May 1717, Saybrook, Middlesex, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Apr 1774, Killingworth, Middlesex, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 56 years)  [Birth]
     7. Jonathan LAY,   b. 1721   d. 1779 (Age 58 years)  [Natural]
     8. John LAY  [Birth]
    Family ID F07210  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 14 Mar 2013 

  • Sources 
    1. [S03552] Vital Records Part 1 of Saybrook 1647-1834 Hartford.

    2. [S02728] The New England Historical and Genealogical Register 1850, Vol. 4 No. 2 April.

    3. [S02879] Old Saybrook Historical Society: Three Generations of Robert Lays.

    4. [S02759] The New England Historical and Genealogical Register 1908, Vol. 62.

    5. [S03425] The Barbour Collection of Connecticut Town Vital Records: Saybrook.

    6. [S00012] E. Glenn Denison, "Denison Genealogy" Ancestors and Descendants of Captain George Denison, (Name: Name: Gateway Press, Inc. Baltimore 1993;;), 63-13712.