Rev Joseph WHITING, A.M.

Male 1641 - 1723  (82 years)


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  • Name Joseph WHITING  [1, 2, 3, 4
    • Joseph married, first Sarah Danforth, who was born at Cambridge, Massachusetts, on 11 Nov 1646, daughter of Honorable Thomas Danforth, later the president of Maine, and Mary Withington. Sarah died, presumably at Lynn, between 1681 and 1683. No vital records from Cambridge or Lynn were found for Sarah's marriage or death. The marriage and its year "about 1673", were noted by William Whiting without reference. It is unknown where the marriage took place. Proof of the marriage is found in Thomas Danforth's will, dated 1 September 1699 and proved 16 November 1699, in which he bequeathed his estate to his son-in-law Mr. Joseph Whiting, pastor of the church in Southampton on Long Island, and for which is "grandsons" Daniel Champney and Samuel Sparhawk were named executors. Samuel Sparhawk was the husband of Sarah Whiting, Joseph and Whiting and Sarah Danforth's daughter.

      Joseph married second, at Stamford, Connecticut, on 28 October 1684, Rebecca Bishop, who was born at Stamford n February 1663 and died at Southampton on 21 April 1726. She was a daughter of Rev. John Bishop and his wife Rebecca Goodyear. rev. Bishop was the second minister at Stamford. Rebecca may have had relatives inSouthampton as several Bishops lived in the area.

      Joseph Whiting's parents, Samuel and Elizabeth (Saint John) Whiting, lived in Lynn where Samuel was the minister from 1636 to 1679, which included the years of Joseph's childhood and early adulthood. Joseph Graduated at Harvard in 1661 during the tenure of President Charles Chauncey (1654-1672), and he was counted among the greatest graduates during that time. "We may enumerate the following, who were eminent in their day, and shone as lights in the Christian Community throughout New England: Increase Mather, Shubael Dummer, Gershom Bulkley, Zachariah Symmes, Joseph Eliot, Samuel Shepard, Samuel Willard, Simon Bradstreet, Nathaniel Chauncy, Joseph Whiting, Solomon Stoddard, Moses Fiske, Nehemiah Hobart, Abraham Pierson, Daniel Gooking, Samuel Mather, Peter Thacher." After his graduation Joseph returned to Lynn and assisted his father. He was ordained as his father's successor on 6 October 1680 after his father's death......

      Mr. Whiting continued in the ministry at Southampton for forty-three years, until his death in 1723. His weathered grave stone may still be read in the Old South End Burying Grounds in Southampton:

      HERE LIES THE
      REVERENT MR IOS
      EPH WHITING WHO
      DIED APRIL THE 7Yr
      1723 IN Ye 82 YEAR
      OF HIS AGE

      The will of Joseph whiting states the names of his wife and living children and establishes the birth order of his sons. ...

      After Mr. Whiting's death, his widow Rebecca Whiting sold the "east half and new end of my now dwelling house in the Town Plot of Southampton. And one-half of my Garden joining to my house, with the free privilege of a cartway on ye north side of the house to the barn" for L10 to her son Ebenezer Whiting on 4 December 1724.

      This house and lot was reportedly on the east side of Main Street. Rebecca's much sharper and less weathered gravestone is next to her husband's. It reads:

      HERE LYES Ye BODY
      OF Mrs REBECCA WHIEING
      WIFE OF Mr JOSEPH WHIEING
      AGED 63 YEARS
      & 2 MONTHS DEC
      APRIL Ye 21 1726

      Rebecca Whiting made her will on 16 April 1726 during an illness that she did not expect to recover nor did she, for she died on 21 April 1726....

      According to family legend, one of the sons (Possibly Samuel) was sent to carry dinner to some men at work. He had to go through some woods and lost his way. He ws not found until he had starved to death. He had eaten all the food except the cheese. He disliked cheese so much that he would rather starve to death. [1]
    Prefix Rev 
    Suffix A.M. 
    Birth 06 Apr 1641  Lynn, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2, 3
    Gender Male 
    Birth Abt 1658  [5
    Fact 6 Oct 1680-1682  Ord. Lynn, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location  [3
    Death 07 Apr 1723  Southampton, Suffolk Co., New York Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2, 3
    Person ID I61058  Main Tree
    Last Modified 30 Aug 2022 

    Father Rev Samuel WHITING, A.M.,   b. 20 Nov 1597, Boston, co. Lincoln Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 11 Dec 1679, Lynn, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 82 years) 
    Relationship Birth 
    Mother Elizabeth ST. JOHN,   c. 12 Jan 1604/5, Bletsoe, co. Bedford Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 3 Mar 1676/7, Lynn, Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location (Age ~ 72 years) 
    Relationship Birth 
    Marriage 6 Aug 1629  Boston, co. Lincoln, England Find all individuals with events at this location  [3
    Family ID F32834  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Sarah DANFORTH,   b. 11 Nov 1646   d. Between 1681 and 1683 (Age 34 years) 
    Children 
     1. Sarah WHITING,   b. Abt 1667, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 8 Dec 1752, Cambridge, Middlesex Co., Massachuetts Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 85 years)  [Birth]
     2. Samuel WHITING,   b. 3 Jul 1674, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Bef 27 Apr 1717 (Age 42 years)  [Birth]
     3. Joseph WHITING,   b. 22 Nov 1675, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 25 Nov 1675, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 0 years)  [Birth]
     4. Joseph WHITING,   b. 8 May 1677, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 7 Jul 1677, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 0 years)  [Birth]
     5. Thomas WHITING,   b. 20 May 1678, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1 Jun 1678, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 0 years)  [Birth]
     6. Joseph WHITING,   b. 14 Jan 1680, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 5 Feb 1680, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 0 years)  [Birth]
     7. Rev. John WHITING,   b. 20 Jan 1681, Lynn, Essex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 4 May 1752, Concord, Middlesex Co., Massachusetts Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 71 years)  [Birth]
    Family ID F43258  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 11 Nov 2021 

    Family 2 Rebecca BISHOP,   b. 26 Feb 1662/3, Stamford, Fairfield Co., Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 26 Apr 1723, Stamford, Fairfield Co., Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 60 years) 
    Marriage 1682  [5
    Children 
     1. Samuel WHITING,   b. Abt 1689, Southampton, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 12 Jul 1729 (Age 40 years)  [Birth]
    +2. Joseph WHITING, Jr.,   b. Abt 1692, Southampton, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 06 Aug 1757, Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 65 years)  [Birth]
    +3. Benjamin WHITING,   b. Abt 1694, Southampton, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 2 Oct 1773, Wallingford, New Haven Co., Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 79 years)  [Birth]
     4. Rebecca WHITING,   b. Southampton, New York Find all individuals with events at this location  [Birth]
     5. Hannah WHITING,   b. Abt 1683, South Hampton, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 16 Nov 1732, Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 49 years)  [Birth]
     6. Ebenezer WHITING,   b. Abt 1696, Southampton, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Between 1764-1766, Greenwich, New York Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 70 years)  [Birth]
     7. Elizabeth WHITING,   b. Bef 1699, Southampton, New York Find all individuals with events at this location  [Birth]
     8. Dorothy WHITING,   b. Bef 1698, Southampton, New York Find all individuals with events at this location  [Birth]
    Family ID F09391  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 11 Nov 2021 

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  • Sources 
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