Maria SLAWSON

Maria SLAWSON

Female 1806 - 1889  (83 years)

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  • Name Maria SLAWSON  [1, 2, 3
    Birth 22 Jan 1806  Orange County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2
    Gender Female 
    Census 1850  Living with husband in Greencastle, Putnam Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [4
    Census 1860  Living with husband in Washington, Decatur Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [5
    Census 1870  Living with husband in Washington, Decatur Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [6
    Census 1880  Living with husband in Washington, Decatur Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [7
    Death 16 Dec 1889  Greensburg, Decatur County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2
    Burial South Park Cemetery, Greensburg, Decatur Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [8
    Notes 
    • Moved to Rising Sun, Ohio County, Indiana, in the fall of 1818 and to Switzerland County, Indiana, in 1819.

      "Autobiography Rev. Joseph Tarkington":

      The Slausons were English. My father, Simeon Saluson, Sr., ws from Stamford, Connecticut. He was the son of, I think jonathan Slauson, who is said to have died August 31, 1820. The names of Jonathan's children were Jonathan, Elihu, Simeon, Daniel, Jonas, Sarah, Lydia, Rhoda, and Polly.
      My father's surname, correctly spelled, was Slauson. After we moved from New York to Indiana, and he had entered his land, the United States patents for his land came from the Government spelling his surname, as the grantee, Slawson, instead of Slauson, and the neighbors generally in writing spelled it that way. So father got into the havit of writing a W unstead of a U in his name.
      Uncle Elihu Slauson was the father of John Budd Slauson, late of No. 16 46th Street, New York City, and "before the war," of New Orleans, Louisiana. Uncle Elihu's wife's name was Esther. Aunt Polly married Dan, and lived in Brooklyn, New York, with her daughter, Adaline hunt. She was ninety years of age when I last saw her, n 1876, I do not remember my grandmother's maiden name. I remember knowing only Uncles Elihu, Jonathan, and Daniel, and Aunt Polly; although I remember an Aunt Rhoda, she was father's sister.
      My mother was born near Ballton springs, New York. She was at her Aunt Sally Brown's, in Orange County, New York, when my father saw and courted her; although I have heard that they firt met at a sleighing party on North River. My mother had brothers, Lewis Wood and Halsey Wood, and, it seems, to me, a David Wood, a sister Mary Wood, and Hannah Wood, who married a Mr. Minor Mills.
      Father was younger than Uncle Elihu. They bought and lived on a farm in Orange County, New York, three miles from Middleton, where we used to go to the Presbyterian Church, and hear Mr. Jackson preach. Father, however, used to say he did not like to hear him, because he preached with gloves on, and prayed with his eyes open.
      Uncle Elihu and we lived on the farm within a dozen rods of each other, having one large yard in common.....
      My father was a cooper, and made wooden canteens for the soldiers in the War of 1812. I remember holding a light at night for him to see to make them, he worked one Sunday also. He did not work much on the farm, but attended to his coopering, making mostly butter firkins, meat and whicky barrels, well-buckets, etc. uncle Elihu attended to the farm. The farm was in Orange County, New York, twenty-five miles fro Newberg, nine miles from Goshen, and three miles from Middleton..........
      In the spring of 1819, father walked through the snow the one hundred and fifty miles up into Ohio, and brought the horses, and we moved over to what was afterwards our home-place, nine miles north of Vevay, Switzerland County, Indiana, about a mile south of what is now Bennington.
      Father had bought one hundred and sixty acres on the east side of the road, intending to move there; but a Mr. Ingersoll owned one hundred and sixty acres opposite, west of the road, and had cleared about three acres and put up a cabin, which he let us move into while he went back to Butler County, Ohio, to bring his family; but his family being averse to coming further West, he sold his land to father. We staid in the cabin three years. It was at the west side of what became the "old orchard," and was on the edge on the woods. The wolves used to howl around the cabin in all manner of voices, each one appeared to have a dozen.
      I used to carry the water in summer, after the day's work was done, from Hildebrand's, a mile south of us. I would take four wooden buckets, fill all four, then take two half-way home, go back and bring the other two up to them, take two home, and go back for the other two. We ground corn in a hand-mill, bought of Butcher, who moved up into Decatur County......
      I was thirteen years old, the oldest of six children, when we moved to the cabin, was strong and healathy, and helped father clear ground, piling and burning brush and logs, besides helping mother all I could about the house. Work was plenty and help scarce....
      After living for three years in the cabin, we moved into a house father had meantime built on the land he first bought on the east side of the road. It was a hewed-log House, of one large room, about twenty feet square, and a shed room on the first floor, and a room up-stairs over the large one. We had two large beds, with a trundlebed across one end of the large room, and in that room we cooked at a large fireplace, the shed and the room up-stairs were bedrooms. there, from December 27, 1830, and March 17, 1831, Daniel, Josephus, Malissa, and Mahala died of winter, now called typhoid, fever. Sisters Matilda and Maluda were born thre; also Daniel and John.....
      I was converted at a prayer-meeting in a little log-house up the branch of "Indian Kentuck," at the house of Mr. Marlow, three or four years before I was married. No preacher was there, but the neighbors had simply gathered for prayer. Zenas Sisson led the meeting. Daniel Sisson, Mr. Gardner and his wife, the Chittendens, some of the Mitchells, Jonathan Andrews, and Mr. Jacques were there. Revs. Allen Wiley and aaron Wood were the circuit preachers at the time, and John Strange presiding elder.
      I afterwards joined the Methodist episcopal Church at a meeting in the schoolhouse about a half mile north of Zenas Sisson's sawmill, Rev. Allen Wiley minister. None of my family had joined then. rev. Allen Wiley and family lived about three mles east of our house, on a farm.
      Rev. John Strange baptized me at a camp-meeting held on father's farm after I joined Church.......
      My husband, Rev. Joseph Tarkington, came as a Methodist preacher on the circuit where we lived in 1830. One Sunday in the spring of 1831, as I was on horseback, riding home from John Cotton and Amanda Clark's wedding, he rode up by my side, and asked me if I had any objections to his company, and I said I did not know as I had. He had been stopping at father's on his rounds of the circuit. It was one of his homes. Mr. Tarkington sometime after this, about a month before we were married, as he was starting away on his circuit, handed a letter to my father, which is as follows:

      August 30, 1831

      "Dear Brother and sister, - You, by this time, expect me to say something to you concerning what is gong on between your daughter and myself. You will, I hope, pardon me for not saying something to you before I ever named anything to her, though she is of age.
      "Notwithstanding all this, I never intended to have any girl whose parents are opposed. Therefore, if you have any objections, I wish you to enter them shortly. I know it will be hard for you to give up your daughter to go with me; for I am bound t travel as long as I can, and, of course, any person going with me must not think to stay with father and mother.
      "Yours very respectfully,
      "J. Tarkington.

      Mr. Simeon slawson,
      Slawson P O,
      Switerland Co, Indiana

      Father thought there would be so many dangers, with suffering and poverty, in being a preacher's wife, that it was a very serious matter, and though he was a man of very few words, he told me as much, while he appeared to be gravely affected. But he wrot note, and gave it to him when he came arund next time, which is as follows:

      "September 4, 1831

      "Reverend Sir, - You express a wish to know if I have any objections to you forming an affinity with my daughter Maria, to which I would reply: If you and my daughter are fully reconciled to the above prposition, which I have no reason to doubt, I do hereby assent to the same, nevertheless, if such a union should take place, it would be very desirable, if you should settle yourself down here, that you would not be too remote from us.
      "Yours most respectfully,
      S. and M. Slauson

      Addressed
      Rev. Joseph Tarkington
      Pleasant Township,
      Switzerland Co, Indiana

      We were married on Septembe 21, 1831, as will be seen, without a long engagement, and the life of an itinerant Methodist preacher's wife may be imagined from the narrative of my husband....
    Person ID I51873  Main Tree
    Last Modified 24 Aug 2022 

    Father Simeon SLAWSON,   b. 19 Jan 1776, Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 22 Jan 1858, Rising Sun, Switzerland Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 82 years) 
    Relationship Birth 
    Mother Martha WOOD,   b. 05 Feb 1786, Saratoga Springs, Saratoga County, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 07 Jul 1866, Rising Sun, Switzerland Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 80 years) 
    Relationship Birth 
    Marriage 06 Apr 1805  [1, 2, 9
    Family ID F06502  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Rev. Joseph TARKINGTON,   b. 30 Oct 1800, Tyrrell County, North Caolina Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 22 Sep 1891, Greensburg, Decatur, Indiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 90 years) 
    Marriage 21 Sep 1831  [1, 2
    Fact Married by Rev. Allen Wiley, at the home of Simeon Slauson, nine miles orth of Vevay, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [2
    Children 
     1. John Stevenson TARKINGTON,   b. 24 Jun 1832, Centerville, Wayne, Indiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 30 Jan 1923, Indianapolis, Marion Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 90 years)  [Birth]
     2. Mary Melissa TARKINGTON,   b. 26 Feb 1834, Greensburg, Decatur Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 08 Aug 1923, Greensburg, Decatur Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 89 years)  [Birth]
     3. Martha Ann TARKINGTON,   b. 17 Feb 1836, Harrison County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 25 Apr 1930, Indianapolis, Marion Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 94 years)  [Birth]
     4. Dr. Joseph Asbury TARKINGTON,   b. 25 Nov 1837, Switzerland County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 01 May 1902, Greensburg, Decatur, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 64 years)  [Birth]
     5. William Simeon Reeves TARKINGTON,   b. 05 Nov 1841, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 20 Jul 1904, Marion County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 62 years)  [Birth]
     6. Ellen Maria TARKINGTON,   b. 18 Dec 1843, Centerville, Wayne Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 02 May 1861, Greensburg, Decatur Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 17 years)  [Birth]
     7. Matthew Simpson TARKINGTON,   b. 16 Jul 1848, Greencastle, Putnam Co., Indiana Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 06 Aug 1911, Tulare, Tulare Co., California Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 63 years)  [Birth]
    Family ID F24336  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 25 Aug 2022 

  • Event Map
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  • Headstones
    Rev. Joseph T. Tarkington and Maria Slauson Headstone
    Rev. Joseph T. Tarkington and Maria Slauson Headstone
    Rev. Joseph t. Tarkinginton and his wife Maria, daughter of Simeon Slauson and Martha Wood, are buried in the South Park Cemetery in Greensburg, Decatur co., Indiana.

    Created by: Mary Ann Tarkington Johnson
    Photo added by: Michele Nelson

  • Sources 
    1. [S03336] Slason-Slauson-Slawson-Slosson Family by George C. Slawson dated 1946.

    2. [S03873] "Autobiography Rev Joseph Tarkington", by. T.A. Goodwin.

    3. [S4496] Ancestry.com: U.S., Sons of the American Revolution Membership Applications, 1889-1970.

    4. [S3196] 1850 Census Greencastle, Putnam County, Indiana.

    5. [S3259] 1860 Census Washington, Decatur County, Indiana .

    6. [S3278] 1870 Census Washington, Decatur County, Indiana.

    7. [S3255] 1880 Census Washington, Decatur County, Indiana.

    8. [S02329] Find A Grave Website.

    9. [S00046] "Descendants of Robert Lockwood" at USGenWebProject - Fairfield County, Connecticut.